Monday, June 8, 2015

Late May

We're a little heavy on the Caspian pictures.  Annaliese is doing very well, happy as a clam, and spending a lot of time reading, which is less photo-demanding than the activities her brother has been up to.

He has thoroughly taken over the care of the newest generation of chickens.  At this point they had yet to join the rest of the flock int he main chicken house, and Caspian dutifully ran around and caught all 15 of them each evening and put them in their interim house.


Both our babies graduated, Caspian from Kindergarten, Annaliese from first grade.  This is the last of so many firsts. Caspian is in the orange shorts, his sister is sitting on the floor behind him, to the left of the U.S. flag. At the kindergarten graduation they sang songs, the kids recited nursery rhymes in groups of three, and Caspian looked tall and handsome.


Annaliese's first grade ceremony was for awards being handed out.  She spent much of the time playing with her non-boyfriend, and sneaking peaks over her shoulder at me to make sure I was watching.  Alexe was able to sneak out of work for the perfect amount of time to see Annaliese, then had to scoot back to the BTC. 

The awards were read as each kid walked up front.  Annaliese reached the front long before they finished rattling off the awards she had won, and there were chuckles that turned into a little collective gasp when she also won the highest reading rate test for the grade.  A little moment of parental pride took place.  She missed out on the perfect attendance award.

We exchanged stuck out tongues across the gym, and she went skipping back to class.  


The temperature dropped to the 50s, and our Mississippi kids broke out their winter jackets. 


It quickly went back up.

He's a fine specimen.


The grapevines in the planters in front of the Blu Buck Mercantile courtyard are racing up, and one of them has produced a bunch of grapes.


Caspian chilling with his best friend at the pool.  And refueling on animal crackers.


The kids are out of school for the summer.  We're keeping them with us this summer, in between camp and trips, which means they need to come with us as Alexe and I try to carry on with our daily chores.  This day Caspian and I decided to go out to the lake for a boy-date lunch.  (Ever since they realized Alexe and I go on "dates" when we leave them with a babysitter, there is nothing more desirable than a date.) 

The girls were off driving the country roads picking up produce. We grabbed some bbq at a country store and headed out to the camping area.


Caspian carefully dividing dessert.  Rolos.


We took a digestive stroll around the lakeshore, threw rocks and sticks in the water, and then headed back into town to get back to whatever we were doing that day.


Meanwhile Annaliese was rocking it at the BTC.  She takes this so seriously, and according to the chef, is one of the best waitresses.  


Mickey.  One of our favorites.  No matter what's going on, he's always available for a relaxed chat.


Signs of a day properly filled:


We spent a Saturday working on the elementary school playground with a small group of volunteers.  Before the bottom fell out of the sky we installed 30 new swing seats, thoroughly mulched under the swings and other playground equipment, and painted almost all the swing sets and some of the railings on the stairs.  When the rain came it miraculously didn't wash the paint away, and though the playground was suddenly under 3 inches of water, with the help of a tractor the trucks made it out.  We have a few more hours of work to knock this project out.  I have plans with a friend on the school board to rip down the old wood playground and build something 30 years younger.

Annaliese dressed for the work day:


The kids still have the bedtime rule that they can keep their lights on and read as late as they want.  Most nights that means an adorable turning out the lights over a snoozing angel, but since they have decided to move back in together, their reading is sometimes louder than reading should be.  I was headed in to explain some things, and saw this little princess reading to her brother.  Another heart-exploding moment. 


This little man is growing.  Here he is on our custom bed, which is almost 8 ft long.  We were taking a moment to rest in the heat of the day; I dozed and after a series of uncomfortable dreams that included me suffocating in various ways, I woke up with him asleep on my back.  


Sunday, June 7, 2015

Mid-May.

The Pine Valley Music and Arts festival.


Arts and crafts for the kids, arts and crafts for the adults, two stages, and a few visiting politicians who gave stump speeches, and many more who plastered all the cars parked in the field with their self-promoting, grammatically challenged placards.

The kids kept coming back from various art stations with their interpretation of Daleks.


Annaliese's friends have finally moved to town; this young lady is one of four accomplished sisters.  They fence, they dance, they're self confident and like cupcakes.  


No festival is complete without a piping hot bouncy castle.


I've heard the eye is the hardest thing to capture as an artist.  


Caspian's buddy for the day.  Nicolas came to Water Valley from Montreal, via Harvard.  He teaches at the university in Oxford.  He's very patient with Caspian.




A failing ponytail, chocolate ice cream on the chin, and a couple more daleks.


Beef Turkey is doing well.  Considering how little milk we're getting from his mother, he's eating very well.


The puppies pointed this turtle out to me.

I love turtles.


Impromptu rain dance party.


Caspian's teeth all decided to jump ship at the same time.  He has now lost more teeth than Annaliese, which may be the best thing that has ever happened to him as a little brother.



Tuesday, May 19, 2015

A little bit of April, a little bit of May.

Life has hit a different pace in this latest lull between projects.  (The next one is warming up.)

There are a number of new activities to fill the days, some prescribed, some pure whimsy, some long term goal oriented and there's time to do them now.

And the timing is wonderful.  The kids are at the best age to tag along, the summer is taking its time warming up, and Alexe and I are minute to minute overcome by how lucky we are.

One of the new things in my life is housekeeping.  For the Ole Miss graduation weekend and Double Decker weekend we were full, with several check-outs and check-ins back to back.  The kids came along to help with the mad dash to clean between guests. And were surprisingly helpful and fun to have around.


They took it very seriously.  Stripping beds, dusting side tables...


Polishing the appliances.


And there was a fight over who got to vacuum which rooms.


Part of the enthusiasm was driven by Saturday cartoons.  The hotel rooms all have cable, something we have never had at home, and the kids will do almost anything for a little glowy-box time.  Since the laundry machines never keep up, there's always a little down time.


After housekeeping chores were done we went fishing.  The rain the night before had done quite a number on the water levels. This is the spot I've been fishing from, though I'm usually 10 ft lower down the bank.


Annaliese isn't the biggest fan.  She has a little burst of enthusiasm each time Caspian catches a fish, but it doesn't last long.


Caspian, on the other hand, could stay here all day watching intently.  And gets very upset when he doesn't catch anything.


Which we didn't in this spot.  The flood waters were moving too quickly, and we didn't come equipped to fish for catfish, so we headed back up the path to the truck.


After Alexe was off work we packed up a picnic and went to a friend's house to try out luck in their pond.  Caspian had spent the afternoon digging worms in the garden in preparation, and he quickly caught a little brim.


Despite everyone giving that brim a kiss so he wouldn't tell his friends about us after we threw him back, that was the only fish any of us caught all evening.  We methodically fed the rest of Caspian's worms to the fish, bits by bits, as they nibbled around the hooks but never swallowed them.


It was a lovely evening.  Caspian was upset by the time he got to his last worm, and grumbled about us throwing back his only catch, but that was to be expected.


Alexe at her post.


I must have spent the intervening days in the woods, because my next pictures are from the following wednesday when we checked the kids out of school early, and took them north for a surprise trip.  We stopped in Sardis for the best pizza we've had outside of Two Amy's in DC.


Followed by dessert at the neighboring italian dessert shack, built inside a cute little house.  Alexe was happy.


It was such a lovely day by the time we made it to Memphis we decided against going into a dark movie theater, and we went swim suit hunting for the kids instead.  Which turned into a clothes shopping adventure.  


Followed by the real reason for our trek north, picking up our new car.  I don't seem to have any pictures of the lovely little sedan.  We're dealing with strong feelings of guilt and self consciousness, and some other fun emotions that are making us downplay and defend out extravagant purchase of a 2012 chevy sedan.  

Putting all that aside, it's awesome.  I drove a chevy volt in 2012, and after 3 years, we bought one, for a third the price.  Certainly worth the wait.  

Who knows when this was, it could have been early morning, or early evening after the farm chores.  We're just as likely to have our jammies on at either time.


The kids have been going to a Wednesday evening program at church.  Practically it means 1.5 hours of date time in the evenings for Alexe and me.  When their bible lessons get a little too aggressive we temper them with discussions of other religions and historic context.  There was a little graduation ceremony in church on Sunday to mark the end of the program, and each child received an award.  Caspian received the Politest award, and Annaliese received the Happiest.


I've had the time to accompany Alexe on her produce purchasing trips out to the Amish.  I keep having plans to buy a second calf for Sarah to raise, but as long as the prices are above $500 for a 3 day old calf, I haven't been able to actually do it.  Bopping around the countryside with Alexe is just as much fun as it used to be, and a real treat to have the time to do it again.

It's also fun to see her in her element.


And still getting excited about whatever produce is in season.


This is where I've been spending my mornings.  There are sections of our property that are overgrown, and then sections that are pure Mississippi thicket.  Barring any accidents, my long term plan is to make everything into a park-land like forest.  In most cases it means cutting 9 out of every 10 trees down, and dealing with all the privet and vines that have tied everything together. 

The animals check on me periodically, and enjoy the treetops that I'm bringing down for them to snack on.


The best I can do in many cases is push huge brush piles ahead of me with the tractor and burn them before I can get any further into the woods.  Which makes for frequent visits later in the day to make sure nothing has gotten out of control.  


Even when the ground is cleaned and the trees are properly spaced, there are still vines hanging down all over the place.  Even a tractor can't pull these things out and off the trees, so we clip them as high as we can reach, and move on.


Self-aware cuteness.


This one came prancing out of her room in a new outfit and declared, "I'm pink!"


Caspian was attending his best friend's birthday party, and I made an executive decision that Caspian would not have to share this experience with his slightly bossy big sister.  She was not happy, until we got to my office and started working on her ping pong game.  


Mother's Day.


This tooth.  It was so ready, and he wouldn't let me pull it out. (Pardon the greenery in his teeth, Alexe's little garden has been keeping us in leafy greens all spring.)


Working away.


This is the town pool, filled in with dirt following desegregation in the south.  I have plans for this thing.  The man who took me to see it is the son of the man who poured the concrete, and he's pretty confident the pool itself should be fine.  We'll see if we can get it cleaned out and brought back to life.  


My babies, reading on the drive to school.  Annaliese is flying through her chapter books, and Caspian has started asking for reading dates, where he painstakingly works his way through half a chapter of one of her books, and then dog ears the page so we can continue the next day.  


He let a teacher at school pull his tooth out.  The same one Annaliese lets do it. Caspian has now lost as many teeth as his sister, (4) and he has a fifth tooth that is very loose.  The possibility of being ahead of his sister in something has him very excited.


Such good kids.


This was a family date night in Oxford.  Some evenings, when the car is fully charged and just sitting there, how can we resist taking a drive?  Dinner, a little browsing at the bookstore, a stop off at the candy and ice cream store... could there be a better use of our time?


I pulled the last leaking hydraulic cylinders off the tractor, since I also managed to blow a hydraulic line in the woods, and took them to town to have them rebuilt.  I had tried to take the caps of the cylinders and rebuild them myself, but John Deere has a fun, and aggravating method of holding the two pieces together with a thin wire that feeds into a groove inside the cylinder and the cap, locking them to each other.  Somehow you need to get ahold of the end of this wire through a tiny hole, and pull it out.  

I gave up, and brought it to the professionals.  Who called me a couple hours later to say they couldn't get them apart either.  I went down to pick them up, and possibly because I had an audience, got the first cylinder apart in 3 minutes.  Which made the boys at the shop a little self conscious, and they said they'd take it from there.  Two hours later I picked up the rebuilt cylinders, and had the tractor reassembled and leak free for the first time since we bought it.